Morehead City Country Club

Rehearsal Dinner

Coral Bay Club

Welcome Party

Wedding Day

St. Paul's Episcopal Church

Ceremony

Beaufort Historic Site

Reception

Tapping the Admiral

After Party!

Our Wedding

Charlie and Ruthie first met in Atlantic Beach as teenagers, but it wasn’t until junior prom that their story truly began. As fate would have it, they walked into the dance not as each other’s dates but left with a memory that would shape their future. Ruthie’s date ran off with Charlie’s date, leaving the two of them unexpectedly paired up on the dance floor. Ruthie took the lead, teaching Charlie how to dance, and from that moment… Charlie was hooked. Over the next year, they stayed in touch, going on the occasional date, but when spring rolled around and Charlie had to decide who to invite to senior prom at Parrott, only one person came to mind: Miss Brady. Shortly after, life took them in different directions. Charlie headed off to Davidson to focus on school and baseball, while Ruthie began her college journey in Chapel Hill. After college, Charlie settled in Raleigh to pursue graduate studies, and Ruthie moved to Washington, D.C. Just a year later, Ruthie also landed in Raleigh, unaware that her handsome prom date lived just half a mile away. Two more years passed before the stars aligned again. When Charlie heard that some of his new Raleigh friends were heading to a wedding at River Dunes, he realized Ruthie would be there as a bridesmaid. He sent a simple message through a friend: “If you see Ruthie Brady, tell her I said hello . . .” The message reached her loud and clear! When Charlie and Ruthie reconnected, it didn’t take long to see that while years had passed, the spark hadn’t. To Charlie’s amusement, Ruthie was still the witty, confident girl he’d crushed on in high school; to Ruthie’s surprise, Charlie had turned into quite the charming gentleman. They slipped into an easy rhythm, spending weekends trying new restaurants in Raleigh, cruising CanAms through Oxford (with Charlie pointing out which wild berries to taste and which to avoid), trading wins in Rummikub and Gin Rummy (Ruthie was—and still is—more often triumphant), and chasing sunsets by boat on Taylor’s or Hoop Hole Creek. Since then, it’s been shared adventures and simple joys: dogsledding through Canadian snow, celebrating milestones with friends in Oregon, and plenty of back-and-forths between Greenville and Raleigh. They love good food, a great bottle of wine, and long walks wherever they land. Charlie has even adopted one of Ruthie’s favorite traditions: eating Pho for dinner every Sunday night. Nearly two years later, Charlie got down on one knee and asked Ruthie, his best friend and the love of his life, to marry him. Before saying yes, Ruthie consulted with her best friend, Jo, who emphatically encouraged her to say “yes.” And now, they can’t wait to start this next chapter together, along with their beloved pup.

Our Story

Photos

Wedding Party

With a stay at Beaufort Hotel in Beaufort, you'll be on the waterfront, just steps from Rachel Carson Reserve and a 5-minute drive from the Beaufort Historic Site. Rooms have private furnished balconies or patios. Take advantage of recreational opportunities offered, including an outdoor pool, a fitness center, and bicycles to rent. Enjoy southern cuisine at 34° North Restaurant, a seafood restaurant which features a bar/lounge, or stay in and take advantage of the room service. Full breakfasts are available for a fee. Below is a link for a discounted room rate! If you book at the Beaufort Hotel, please let me know.

Beaufort Hotel

When you stay at Inlet Inn NC in Beaufort, you'll be in the historical district, within a 5-minute walk of North Carolina Maritime Museum and Beaufort Historic Site. This hotel is 0. 1 mi (0. 1 km) from Rachel Carson Reserve and 7. 4 mi (11. 9 km) from Anchorage Marina. Featured amenities include a computer station, a library, and microwave in a common area. Free self parking is available onsite. A complimentary continental breakfast is served daily from 7:30 AM to 9:30 AM. Make yourself at home in one of the 36 air-conditioned rooms.

Inlet Inn NC

There are many B&amp;Bs and independent rental houses available in Beaufort. Guests that intend to use our provided transportation to-and-from the wedding should ensure their lodging is in walking/golf cart distance of either The Beaufort Hotel, or downtown Beaufort. You will find that most B&amp;Bs will be right near the Beaufort Historic Site!

AirBnB, VRBO, and Bed & Breakfasts

Coastal Carolina Regional Airport (EWN) in New Bern, North Carolina, is the closest commercial airport to Beaufort, NC. It's a fifty minute drive from EWN to Beaufort. There are traditional car rental options on site, Ubers/Lyft and vehicles listed on Turo (think AirBnB for cars) in the area.

Coastal Carolina Regional Airport

Other nearby airports include Albert J. Ellis (OAJ) airport in Jacksonville, NC (approximately one hour drive from Beaufort), Wilmington International Airport (ILM, two hour drive), and Raleigh Durham International Airport (RDU, three hour drive). RDU will have the most flight options. Many rental cars are available.

Alternate Airports

Getting a golf cart might not be essential, but it’s definitely a fun and convenient way to explore Beaufort! We highly recommend! Cruise around town and enjoy easy parking wherever you go. Sinclair’s is the top rental spot.

Sinclair's Golf Cars

Travel

Beaufort Bars<a href="https://therhumbar.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Rhumbar at Stillwater</a> (C&amp;R's favorite - must get a Painkiller (Level 2))<a href="https://historicbeaufort.com/backstreet_pub1.htm" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Backstreet Pub</a><a href="https://www.beaufortcru.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Cru Coffee &amp; Wine Bar</a><a href="https://fishtownebrewhouse.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Fishtowne Brew House</a> Restaurants<a href="https://www.34degreesnorthrestaurant.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">34° North Restaurant</a> (in the Beaufort Hotel)<a href="https://aquaexperience.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Aqua Restaurant</a><a href="https://www.beaufortgrocery.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Beaufort Grocery Co.</a> (C&amp;R's favorite - must get the Saganaki)<a href="https://www.blacksheepbeaufort.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Black Sheep</a> (Ruthie likes the Shrimp Pizza)<a href="https://www.bluemoonbistro.biz/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Blue Moon Bistro</a> (C&amp;R's favorite)<a href="https://citykitchentowncreek.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">City Kitchen</a><a href="https://therhumbar.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Front Street Grill &amp; Rhumbar at Stillwater</a><a href="https://mezcalitogrill.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Mezcalito</a><a href="https://www.yelp.com/biz/queen-annes-revenge-beaufort-3" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Queen Anne's Revenge</a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/RoyalJamesCafeOffical/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Royal James Cafe</a> (stop in for a famous cheeseburger and a game of pool!) Water Adventures<a href="https://www.happydaysboat.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Happy Days Tours</a> (ask for Capt. Doug ;))<a href="https://www.lookoutcruises.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Lookout Cruises</a><a href="https://shacklefordwildhorseandshellingsafari.com/wild-horse-shelling-safari/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Shackleford Banks Shelling &amp; Wild Horse Expedition</a><a href="https://cruisintikisbeaufort.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Tiki Cruises</a> Museums + Sightseeing<a href="https://beauforthistoricsite.org/buildings-grounds/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Beaufort Historical Site &amp; Double Decker Bus Tour</a><a href="https://thewatercraftcenter.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Harvey W. Smith Watercraft Center</a><a href="https://ncmaritimemuseumbeaufort.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">NC Maritime Museum in Beaufort</a><a href="https://www.crystalcoastnc.org/listing/old-burying-grounds-guided-tour/14728/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Old Burying Grounds Guided Tour</a><a href="https://www.deq.nc.gov/about/divisions/coastal-management/nc-coastal-reserve/reserve-sites/rachel-carson-reserve" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Rachel Carson Reserve</a> Morehead City Bars<a href="https://arendellbar.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Arendell Room Bar</a> (top tier Espresso Martinis)<a href="https://www.jacksonthewaterfront.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Jack’s on the Waterfront</a><a href="https://www.rockthedockmhc.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Rock the Dock</a> (dueling piano bar) Restaurants<a href="https://www.fullcirclecafe.biz/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Full Circle Cafe</a> (C&amp;R's favorite - ask for Jess)<a href="https://www.facebook.com/p/Parrotts-on-Eleventh-100063613872116/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Parrott's On Eleventh</a><a href="https://www.promiselandmarket.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Promise Land Market</a><a href="https://www.southernsaltseafood.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Southern Salt Waterfront Restaurant</a><a href="https://yellowfinpub.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Yellowfin Pub</a> (perfect spot for lunch - must get the Tuna Poke Nachos)<a href="https://www.friendlymarketnc.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The Friendly Market</a> (great market/grocery - we recommend getting a tomato pie, quiche and some blue crap dip with mamacita chips) Atlantic Beach Bars<a href="https://www.facebook.com/IdleHourAB/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Idle Hour Biergarten</a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/tipsyturtletavern/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Tipsy Turtle Tavern</a><a href="https://tackleboxab.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Tackle Box Tavern</a> Restaurants<a href="https://bahiabeachhouseab.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Bahia Beach House &amp; Surf Bar</a><a href="https://www.islandgrillenc.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Island Grille</a><a href="https://table9nc.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Table 9 Seafood Restaurant</a> Museums + Sightseeing<a href="https://www.ncparks.gov/state-parks/fort-macon-state-park" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Fort Macon State Park</a><a href="https://www.ncaquariums.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">North Carolina Aquarium at Pine Knoll Shores</a>

Ruthie & Charlie

Ruthie & Charlie

Registry